Before you get to the Hanukkah blessings, also called brachas in Hebrew, it is always good to have a reminder of when to include the blessings when lighting the Hanukkah menorah.
Gather your household together and set your candles out right-to-left for the appropriate night (1 for the first night, 2 for the second, etc.).
Light the shamash, the extra candle not counted towards the total number, and keep it in your hand as you say both of the blessings, or all 3 if it’s the first night. Unlike lighting candles for Shabbat and other holidays where many women light the candles and only then say the bracha with their eyes covered, blessing over Hanukkah candles is recited before lighting and with the eyes uncovered.
Following the blessings, light the candles with the shamash candle in your hand, starting from the left and going right. Remember the shamash is not counted towards the number of candles.
Then you are done, but many people like to sing songs and stay nearby to enjoy the lights. Grab your doughnuts and dreidels!
You should get candles that burn as long as possible so they can last from Hanukkah candle lighting time at sundown 30 minutes before nightfall, and continue with enough fuel into the night. Whether wax candles or oil cups, let them burn into the nighttime naturally without extinguishing. This is especially important on Friday, when Hanukkah candles must be lit right before Shabbat candle lighting. On Saturday night, they are light right after Havdalah.